We paraphrase what others have said in our group to clarify understanding.

We ask probing questions.

We acknowledge the ideas and opinions of our group members.

All of us can express our opinions and positions without hurting the feelings of others in our group.

We seek out diverse opinions and try to come to common understanding.

We can respond verbally to the ideas of others in our group and may ask for clarification.

We are interested and curious about the ideas of others in our group.

Our opinions are communicated without passing judgment, like using “I” versus “you” messages.

We extend our discussions beyond our initial thoughts and ideas.

We resolve our differences. 

We acknowledge the ideas of others through gestures or phrases.

Occasionally, we repeat the ideas of others to acknowledge or indicate support.

We have a difficult time responding to the ideas of others in our group.

We pay attention to the consequences of what we say or do at times, but we have difficulty taking turns or accepting suggestions from others.

Our differences are sometimes ignored and, when acknowledged, can be left unresolved.

We offer feedback only if requested.

We have difficulty responding to questions.

Our contributions are neither acknowledged nor addressed.

We do not pay attention to the consequences of what we say or do.

Our differences are usually suppressed or ignored and sometimes result in arguments.